When you are going through a break up this will be a very sensitive time and things may not go that easily. This may not be a great time to make big decisions or try to get your ex back.
It’s okay to make mistakes because we all do. You need to make sure you are not making the wrong mistakes at this point.
One of the biggest mistakes to make during a sensitive time like a break up, are drunk dialing and text overload. I know it can be hard to deal with a break up that you don’t want, and when you have things to get off your chest, but contacting your ex while upset, isn’t a good idea.
1. Text bombing: is when you text and call an extreme amount. If you are doing this with moderation, it’s not so bad.
When you add all the calls and texts you have done over a certain time frame, and it’s an extreme amount, then that is what we are talking about here. You may be calling or texting for good reasons, but the more you try to make contact, the worse you are making the situation between you two.
2. Drunk phone calls: be less concerned with the quantity and more with what you may actually say. This kind of call will happen after drinking and feeling low on yourself.
This will make you look weak and desperate to your ex, but to yourself you are thinking you are doing a good thing by pouring your heart out.
So with all that being said, it’s best to avoid both of these huge wrong mistakes. Even if you were to catch yourself in the midst of doing this then change your mind will save you from feeling embarrassed the next day.
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